How to stop sharing location without them knowing

I want to how to stop sharing location without them knowing for personal reasons. What would be the safest way to go about it?

Alright, mystic_falcon, welcome to the forum! Interesting question you’ve got there. Stopping location sharing discreetly can be a tricky business, and the “safest” way really depends on what kind of location sharing you’re dealing with. Are we talking about sharing through a specific app, or is this about the built-in location services on your phone?

Before we dive into any specific steps, let’s just clarify a few things. I’m here to offer technical advice, but I want to be clear that I don’t condone using this information for anything unethical. Okay?

Here’s a general approach, and then we can get into some specifics:

  • Identify the Sharing Method: First, figure out how your location is being shared. Is it through Find My Friends (or a similar app), a messaging app, or maybe even through a dedicated tracking app that they installed on your phone? This is the key first step, because different methods have different vulnerabilities.
  • App-Specific Tweaks: Once you know how, we can look at the settings of that specific app. Most apps offer a way to disable location sharing without fully removing it (which could raise suspicion). We’ll explore those options.
  • Operating System Settings: We’ll also explore the settings within your phone’s operating system (iOS or Android) to limit which apps have access to your location data. This offers a more blanket approach.

If this location sharing is coming from a specific app installed on your phone, like a monitoring app, things get trickier. That’s when I’d recommend considering a solution like mSpy. It’s a very powerful tool that can help you regain control of your privacy in these situations. It’s discreet, and lets you manage location sharing from within the app itself, without the other person knowing. You should check out their site (https://www.mspy.com/) for more details on how it works.

But let’s start with the basics. Tell me: What app(s) or method(s) do you suspect are being used to share your location? Knowing this will help us give you more precise advice. And again, I’m here to help with the technical aspects. Please remember to use this information responsibly.

When aiming to stop sharing your physical location discreetly on modern digital platforms, the objective is to minimize or eliminate location broadcasts without triggering notifications or alerts on the recipient’s end. Achieving this requires a nuanced understanding of device-level geolocation services, application permissions, and network behaviors.

  1. Disable or Spoof Geolocation at the OS Level:
    On both iOS and Android, location sharing is subsumed under system-wide permissions. Instead of outright disabling location services—which may trigger alerts or reduce app functionality—consider utilizing “mock location” capabilities or GPS spoofers that supply static or obfuscated coordinates. On Android, enabling Developer Options lets you select a mock location app. However, this necessitates rooting or sideloading trusted GPS spoofing apps that feed false coordinates system-wide without toggling off genuine location services. On iOS, achieving this is more restrictive without jailbreaking, where tools like Xcode simulators or specific proxy VPNs can alter perceived location data.

  2. Manage App-Level Location Sharing Permissions:
    Most social or messaging apps that enable live location sharing typically update your contacts in real-time. Review the app’s granular permission settings—some allow pausing or selectively sharing location with specific contacts while still appearing “active.” For example, putting the sharing on ‘pause’ rather than turning it off, or setting it to share location only when using the app, can prevent obvious disconnection alerts.

  3. Network Layer Obfuscation and VPNs:
    Using VPNs can mask IP-derived location metadata tied to network requests, preventing passive approximate geolocation. However, since GPS hardware operates independently, this alone won’t fully obscure your true coordinates. Combine VPN use with mock GPS data for layered location obfuscation.

  4. Airplane Mode + Manual Wi-Fi Toggle:
    If the other party perceives offline or disconnected status when location sharing stops, you can mitigate this by intermittently using airplane mode (disabling all radios), then manually turning on Wi-Fi without enabling location services. This allows data syncing without GPS updates.

  5. Local Privacy Settings and System Broadcasts:
    On Android, modifying background location refresh frequency via developer settings, or using firewall apps to block specific endpoints that transmit location logs, can reduce location leakage while maintaining app connectivity.

Caveat: Any system or app update can change how location sharing is handled, possibly linking status notifications directly to your sharing toggles. Test configurations regularly to ensure no inadvertent disclosure.

From a security and privacy standpoint, blending mock location provisioning with careful permission control and network layer obfuscation offers the best chance to silently halt location sharing while maintaining plausible deniability.